Movin’ on

January 25th, 2012

I want to share with you my recent experience of changing countries, moving to a city from the countryside and having a completely different lifestyle and how that’s been affecting me energetically and the essences I’ve been using to help me adjust.

(For those that don’t already know I’m living in New Orleans for a couple of months and staying with a very good friend/ soul sister, experiencing the Carnival season and all the other things this city has to offer :) )

I’ve done quite a lot of travelling in my life but never before have I noticed how it affects me energetically as much as I have done this time. Without all my ‘things’ and history, friends and family around me I have a new feeling of who I am, me in the here and now- more condensed and contained and more able to be who I truly am without all my history and peoples pre-conceived ideas of who I am and how I should behave –it’s very liberating and fun to play with and I’ve been really enjoying the Buttercup essence for smiley confidence, Cowslip (for playfulness) as well as Twayblade (Leap of Faith) for diving into new adventures. In the past, without the help of essences, I would have found this experience more scary (and Wild Garlic would have helped loads with that) and constricting and I would have pulled into myself more.

After a couple of weeks living in someone else’s space, sharing their life and their ‘things’ I’ve really been helped by Yarrow essence which is great for realizing what is your ‘stuff’ and what is theirs. In all relationships there is an interaction of energy and it is so easy to take on the feelings of someone else – and for them to take on yours. I’m realizing how important it is to be responsible for the energy you give out and just how we affect those around us. Coming back here after 3 years has really made me realize just how much I’ve changed and achieved in that time -thanks mostly to those fabulous flowers .

I’m just love love loving our My Personal Space spray –it really came into it’s own during a long flight and makes me feel safe and protected while walking the streets (and its smells sooo good)

And I’m really enjoying living with someone else and sharing good times, dreams, meals and thoughts and seeing how different another culture is, how other people do things and learning more about myself in relationship to that- reassessing my values, finding out what’s important to me and what I want to really do with my time.
The essence that has really really helped with all this movement and change is Rio Clarillo, our river essence, which helps you go with the flow, to not get stuck in your ideas of how things ‘should’ be and is a lively, fun and energetic number for letting go.

I’m truly hoping that you too are enjoying the beginning of this year as much as I am and using those essences to support you in all the challenges that you come across –never forget how much support you have available to you when you need it, and do get in touch if you have any questions at all about which essences you might need at this time –It may sound like I’m off being footloose and fancy free but if it’s essences you want help with I’m always here …… (saskia@saskiasfloweressences.com) -as is Christine, back at base, ready to pack off your orders as soon as they arrive.

“The principal business of life is to enjoy it”

December 12th, 2011

We made our Let’s Celebrate combination as a bit of fun…..to add to non-alcoholic punch at parties to help you let your hair down, find it easier to interact in a confident fun way and relax with others. But we soon found that there is a ‘serious’ side to it as well – after trialling it for a week or two I became aware of all the things I had to be grateful for and didn’t necessarily appreciate, people commented on how I was much more smiley and in general I felt more in the present and happier. It’s also great for chasing the winter blues away.

If you find it difficult to have fun this combination means business –it is full of yellow sunshiney confident flowers, is great for bringing you back to the here and now with the roots of Carrot and Dandelion and also has our Chilean river essence, Rio Clarillo, in it to help you let go and wash your cares away…… the essences that begged to be invited to the party were : Buttercup to add a confident shine, Cowslip to help you feel safe enough to play, Gorse to bring joy, Dandelion to help bring out your inner dandy here and now, Carrot to help you interact with others and Rio Clarillo to relax and go with the flow…..

Every New Years Eve my resolution is to be more Joyful –I’m getting much better at it but every year I decide I could definitely have more Joy in my life. With a couple of droppers full of Let’s Celebrate in the party punch this year it’ll be a cinch :)

So this party season take some of the magic of flowers along with you and take celebrating to a whole new level……

It also makes a great gift………….

Speaking with Confidence

October 26th, 2011

We made this combination initially from a request from someone who wanted help with public speaking but after it being around for a while we realized ,like all essences, that it refuses to be confined to just this one purpose :) . Not only is it very good for speaking but it also brings a much greater awareness to how we communicate on all levels and then brings the true strong confidence and an inner knowing of what it is that we really need to communicate to the outside world.

In the so excitingly rapidly changing world that we have today where it feels we have suddenly awoken from a dream and realized that how we have behaved as a race can no longer sustainably continue it is essential that we are able to put our heads up high and say “this is what I believe, this is how I see it, this is what I am doing about it, this is wrong, this is how I believe it could be”. This combination helps you be able to do that in a focussed, connected way that feels right and powerful.

So what essences has it got in it to perform such miracles….well the first is Bluebell which helps you put your head up high and speak your truth. It is great for people who don’t think they are worth listening to, that their view isn’t valid, who would usually rather keep their head down and not be noticed. Then we added Borage, another blue flower, which brings courage and a feeling of being able to deal with all life has to ‘offer’ and then the fabulously cheerful, creative and confident Buttercup had to be invited along to remind us how easy it is to shine. When we have a lot to say it is crucial to get the words out in an organized understandable way that makes sense so we added Carrot and finally for an extra dose of universal support we put in Wild Garlic. This essence makes you feel safe and connected, and in communication, with the whole.

With all those fabulous flowers along for the ride I feel life might just get a lot more interesting. We all have a part to play in this world and the more we take part in a conscious vocal way the better it will be for everyone. So if you are having a hard time saying what you really want to and are feeling a little powerless this is the mix for you.

Go on give it a go and ‘Speak with Confidence’ – others don’t know what you think unless you tell them.

Changing yourself is changing the world

September 21st, 2011

Of course everything is changing all the time but it feels, to many, that there is a lot more of it about than usual. Many of us find this quite hard to deal with. The fear, resistance and panic it brings up can be enormous especially if it’s amplified by the media and those around us.

Lots of people believe that there is a massive shift happening for the life of the planet and the beings that live on it. This shift will, undoubtedly, bring chaos and destruction as the old ways of being/doing/ thinking change into the new.

Essences are great tools to have by your side while all these changes are happening .How we deal with the changes inside and outside of us affects how those around us react and, therefore, how the planet as a whole reacts. How you deal with things affects EVERYTHING .

If you believe in a divine plan but are unable to let yourself go with the flow and let everything happen as it is ‘meant’ to Rio Clarillo is a great essence (I wrote more about this amazing river essence in a blog a year or so ago- called All Change) it brings movement and change in a light playful way, enabling you to relax, feel into your intuition and move with less resistance down the river of life.

Some of us would prefer to believe that change is not happening by keeping keeping on, working hard and fast and hoping that by doing things like we have always done everything will continue to be as it is. For this way of being Speedwell is a very good essence bringing a calm knowingness that everything is going to be alright, it’s fine to slow down(or even stop), it brings a stillness in amongst the chaos (a bit like being at the stationary middle point of a whirlpool) and is fabulous for these turbulent times.

Willow essence brings flexibility .It stops us seizing up and becoming stuck. Dr Bach said it was very good for arthritis when our bodies seize up and are unwilling to bend at all. The flexibility of the willow means that this tree, often found near rivers/water, doesn’t break during times of great stress, which is a lesson we all need to remember.

Walnut is another Bach tree essence that is very good during times of change bringing a protected feeling from how everyone else is reacting to how we are and helps with transitions from one phase to the next.

When right in the midst of stressful, panicky changing times Star of Bethlehem and Dandelion are great for feeling grounded and solid and centred.Star of Bethlehem is used in our Accident and Emergency essence (as well as in Bach’s Rescue Remedy) for shock of any kind –in the present, near past or a long long time ago. Dandelion is incredibly grounding bringing you completely into the present and able to deal with things in a present, sunshiney way. Borage is very good at bringing courage and a feeling of being able to cope with all of life’s challenges/growth opportunities(!)

Oh and don’t forget the Wild Garlic which brings us back in touch with whoever is ‘up there’ looking out for us . It brings back a knowing that we are safe and supported.

If you are feeling good about all that is happening in your life, you are happy and thriving with all this change but find other people’s reactions hard to deal with you might find ‘My Personal Space’ spray very good for keeping firm boundaries and not letting ‘others’ bring you down.

And if you want to change and are having trouble doing so our Keep on Track combination is just what you need to help you along your chosen path.

Change is inevitable –how we deal with it is up to us. So don’t forget those fabulous flowers to help you remember how to be who you truly are.

Anger

August 14th, 2011

Most of us think/feel/have been taught that anger is a negative experience and lots of us often try as hard as possible to ignore/push down any angry feelings we have, conditioned to think they make us a bad person. Anger is one of those emotions we’d rather not have and most of us have many techniques of avoiding this uncomfortable emotion, whether they are drink and/ or drugs (illegal or prescribed) or other ways of just stopping feeling anything at all.

However in the long term this can be incredibly bad for our mental and physical health and will either turn inwards mutating into bitterness and resentment, affecting our relationships and our general outlook on life or forcing its way to the surface in an unmanageable, and often violent explosion.

However we feel about it anger, expressed and confronted while fresh and young can be an incredibly healthy and rewarding experience, bringing about change and showing where things aren’t working.

Holly essence is the best flower essence for dealing with anger in ourselves and understanding it in others. It brings an awareness of what the underlying issues are, bringing compassion to a situation and helping us see how a resolution to the problem may come about.

Usually it is situations where we are being treated unfairly, are not being listened to or feel we are misunderstood that bring feelings of anger and frustration , as we are experiencing throughout the world this year. Sometimes all it takes is for someone else to acknowledge that there is a problem, that they are listening to our grievances and are willing to try and help find a solution. At other times we may need to physically move our anger out of our bodies . Digging or chopping wood, swimming, running or doing some other strenuous activity really helps ,transmuting the energy into something else.

Other flower essences that really help with situations involving anger are Weld which brings perspective to a situation, helping you step back and objectively look at something. Nettle is very good for situations where you are not putting up clear boundaries. When this happens it is very easy for you to get angry at being mistreated. Blackberry is great about doing something about situations you are angry about especially situations where others are being treated unfairly/ unjustly. It helps you stand up and state your case and brings energy to get things changed. Once anger has changed to resentment and bitterness Willow can be very useful to bring flexibility to a situation/person that has become stuck and unbending .

So yet again we can turn to the incredibly powerful tools that essences are to help us deal with our emotions in a healthy way , to bring awareness , to find solutions and to make life a more enjoyable, healthy experience all round .

Keep on Track

June 13th, 2011

A few months ago a woman came up to us at an event we were at and asked if we had anything to help her lose weight…..we explained that our essences deal more with emotional issues and that they might help bring awareness to the emotional reasons why she was overweight and help keep her focussed on her dieting but wouldn’t actually make her lose weight.

In yet another ‘light bulb moment’ that Christine and I are prone to we realized that here was a new combination essence waiting to be ‘born’ which can help with anything you have resolved to do and keep you focussed on your mission. And so, along with 3 other new combinations, we have recently launched ‘Keep on Track’ and so far the results are looking pretty good (though I say so myself :) ). One woman described a feeling of having a laser beam rather than a hazy light shining on her resolve.

 This is the essence to take if you are training for a race and are finding it really hard to get out of bed to do your daily run, if you have decided you want to give up smoking (or any other addiction) or if you keep getting pulled back into a destructive relationship. And I’m sure you can think of lots of other times when you need to be reminded to keep on the road you have chosen, to not get persuaded by other people to do something you don’t really want to do, to say no to the piece of cake that you’re being offered …… I could go on.

 Flower essences are great at bringing awareness and helping us shift patterns, and as someone recently said to me, to “awaken your true self”. It feels really good to be able to bring something into the world to help you all keep to your chosen path and we’re incredibly grateful that the flowers want to help us all in this complex human journey.

 This fabulous new combination contains : Nans Polyanthus – for things that are difficult to do, Walnut – to stop being influenced by what others think ,Weld – for keeping the bigger picture in mind, Blackberry – for energising your ‘mission’, Yarrow – protection from outside influences, Pennyroyal – for feeling balanced and complete.

 We hope that you’ll find it really useful in your toolkit for life.

To order Keep on Track go to:

 http://www.saskiasfloweressences.com/keepontrack.html

News Update and other stuff

May 11th, 2011

 

“The reward of our work is not what we get, but what we become” Paulo Coelho

Saskia’s Flower Essences consists of me (Saskia), my very good friend Christine and her partner George who we employ to do the website, leaflet/label design and any other technical stuff –in fact often we feel he does more than the 2 of us put together.

We’ve been friends since our boys were at primary school together (more than 15 years now) and the quote above reminded me how much the work we all do together, to get the essences out to the people who need them, has strengthened/tested/improved our relationship and the personal growth we’ve gone through along the way. I know for myself personally that, with the help of the flowers I’ve become much more confident, outgoing , self assured and happier with who I am.

It’s knowing how much the essences help people in their struggle to become the best that they can be that keeps us going when the bills come in/we’ve spent all day at the computer/orders don’t come in as quickly as we want.

All along we’ve known that this is a long term business, that (like life) slow steady growth is best, that helping others is what it’s all about and it’s the small milestones that we celebrate – yesterday we managed to get barcodes on our combination labels for a chain of stores who need them and for some reason this felt like a big leap and they looked sooo professional (thanks George)….. it’s the little things that keep you going :)

Also this month we have released  4 NEW COMBINATIONS  which we know are going to be a great success ……STRENGTH AND SUPPORT, SPEAKING WITH CONFIDENCE, LET’S CELEBRATE and KEEP ON TRACK……we hope the names are self explanatory but if not go to our combinations page where you can also buy them : http://www.saskiasfloweressences.com/combiessences.html

And we also had a great day at Hawkwood College Open Day where we launched our new essences, our new leaflet and gave a workshop (which my dad attended !!- bringing me face to face with how much I have grown and who I’ve become).So many people told us their stories of how our essences have helped them which is really rewarding…… We are doing a 2 day workshop there next month which we’re really looking forward to -they still have places available so if you’re interested get in touch.(http://www.saskiasfloweressences.com/workshops.html)  

For me the exciting bit about my ‘work’ is not only what it’s helped me become but how much further I know it’s going to take me…along with the help of the flowers and my friends to act as catalysts/mirrors…..BRING IT ON  :)

Dandelions

April 11th, 2011

Everywhere I look there are Dandelions shining like mini suns, the fields are covered in them, rejoicing in the returning of the sun. They glow and shine and it seems like the warmth they have absorbed is making them smile. As any gardener knows they are very deep rooted and don’t give up the struggle easily- getting rid of them is nearly impossible.

Like the star sign of Leo they are ‘dominant, spontaneously creative and extrovert’ and seem to ‘thrive on adversity’ and indeed Dandelion flower essence brings a dandy-lion quality with it. This is truly a Leo flower.

This energy- strong, grounded and certain of itself -definitely seems to be needed in the world at the moment where world events have left many of us feeling wobbly, despondent, helpless and unsure of what the future will bring and how to deal with it. Dandelion essence brings you back into the here and now in a strong, brave confident way, able to get on with what you have to do to make this world a sunnier place. And like a dandelion that sends all its seeds off into the air to go wherever they will the thoughts that come while being grounded and true to yourself inspire and help others to do the same :)

So start practising being a dandelion today, go and lie in a field in the sun until you feel a deep connection with the earth, as you feel the sun filling your body relax, start glowing and smile very broadly…..then let your seeds/thoughts just drift off on the breeze-and see how much more present, confident and sunny you feel. Taking our Dandelion essence will make this even easier, especially if you are surrounded by concrete!

To order some today go to:

 http://www.saskiasfloweressences.com/dandelion.html

New Beginnings

March 13th, 2011

 

How do you cope with the new beginnings that life throws at you? When it feels like everything is taken away from you, or just naturally comes to an end and it’s time to move on how do you respond?

There is that feeling of anticipation and often some panic about what lays ahead, a new challenge to get on with, the letting go, the grieving of what you have left behind, the changes and shifts that it feels necessary to make, the new perspective to get used to, to find out how it feels and whether you like it or not.

In life there are always new beginnings. That is how we continue to grow- like trees we have cycles of (seeming) dormancy followed by big growth spurts, just slowly quietly growing and then letting go of things that no longer serve us. I remember once, when having to move house more or less singlehandedly with 2 teenage boys about to fledge, saying to one of them “all this change is just too much. “ He replied, with the wisdom of his years “Change is good mum”. And indeed it often is but the more help we can get the smoother and easier it is. And that’s where those magic drops come in.

 We make several essences that can really help with moving on. Walnut is traditionally the essence people think of for big changes as it’s so protective and helps you from being upset in any way about what other people think about what, why and how you are doing something. Borage is another protective essence that makes you feel you can cope with anything that life throws at you, it brings with it courage and calmness and a sense of safety.  Wild Garlic always makes you feel safe and supported and often takes away the fear in any situation. For the letting go of the old Rio Clarillo, as I wrote here a few months ago, is great for going with the flow down the river of life. And Nans Polyanthus is very energising and helpful with anything that you find difficulty to do- so if you know that you need to move on but are putting it off this will really help, it will also help with getting on with the practicalities –the (un)packing, organizing, list doing bit of endings/beginnings.

If there is letting go of other people our combination essence Emotional Rescue is fabulous with dealing with heartache and grief ( which you can also feel for homes and places) and feeling strong enough to cope again.

 

So with Spring here and everything around us moving and shifting don’t forget the help those flowers can give us with our new beginnings.

Snowdrops

February 15th, 2011

The earth is stirring after a long cold winter (for most of us) and the snowdrops in their  brave, some may think foolhardy, way are the first to push their way through frozen earth to catch the first glimmers of pale sun on their smooth shoulders. The freezing winds batter them, the frost freezes them night after night but then as soon as the sun shines they open, their 3 petals spread revealing exquisite green markings and they glow, so so white and dance in the wind for they know that spring is coming, that it’s not too early to celebrate, the year has shifted and there is hope.

We have been helping a young Frenchman make a short film about essences and as this is the only time he has free we have been concentrating a lot on snowdrops and getting to know them. It’s been a joyful experience and they have showed us how to be brave, to let any tension we have hanging on our shoulders slip off, to defrost and be hopeful about the future.

We have only just made the essence but feel, already, that it would be good for depression, grief and tension. But those are just my feelings, as with all essences everyone gets something slightly different from them. It’s a bit like getting to know a person –everyone will have a different experience (sometimes completely different) of who you are and so it is with flowers. It is very difficult to write what each essence is for as, like us, they don’t like being put in boxes. We can only give a general idea, a suggestion, an invitation to explore if you are moved or excited by what that flower may be able to show you. And then provide you with the essence if you want to experience it’s energy, to learn what it has to teach.

All I know is that I would like to be more like a snowdrop- pure and brave and able to let things sliiide off my shoulders, to shine like a bright light and open to the sun :)

If you would like to try and be more like a snowdrop please get in touch (saskia@saskiasfloweressences.com) and we will send you an essence for a free trial, we’ll also send you a form to fill in to share your experiences.

And don’t forget there are lots of other flowers waiting to show you how to be more like them, we’ve harnessed their energy and they are waiting for you at www.saskiasfloweressences.com